Thursday, November 12, 2009

"Social Studies" vs. Science


Hellllllooooo! I have to share a funny story about my little Taylor Jo. I went to parent teacher conferences this week, and my kids are usually straight A students. This is very odd to me because I think I was a straight C student. I remember getting a few A's here and there. I think I was more interested in the "social" part of school than the learning part...big surprise huh? Well, Taylor has inherited my "gift of gab" as James calls it. She is a social butterfly...but she is also smart. I love that my kids have the drive to be good in school. Maybe it's because I tell them that they will have to get a $2.00/hr. job compared to a $50.00/hr job if they don't get good grades. They are very motivated by money, is that bad?


Well, I got to Taylor's teacher and she showed me her report card and it had a D- on it!!!! I almost passed out! Her teacher told me that it wasn't a big deal, and it was only because she didn't hand in a few assignments (did I mention that Taylor also inherited my airheadedness?). Being the resourceful mother I am, I decided to use this as a teaching moment. I got home and I gave them their report cards, Christian was all A's, and Taylor went down the list of all A's until she got the D- in Science. She freaked out and said "I got a D- and it wasn't even in talking, it was in Science!". I was cracking up because she expected to get a bad grade for talking, but never for school work.


I acted really serious and told her why. She said that she would never forget to turn her homework again and she was so sad/mad. It worked!!! I don't think I can do anything about the talking, but I can do something about their grades.


Then I thought to myself, I might of got bad grades in Science, but I got good at socializing. I am satisfied with that because I have to use my socializing abilities EVERY day. It is a good skill to have because we all know how awkward it is to try to talk to somebody with no social skills.


So..GO SOCIALIZE!!!

3 comments:

Barb said...

Poor little Tay Tay - I still feel bad for her! I'll bet she never gets another D-! You were smart too, you just loved, loved, to talk! I'm so glad that you are just who you are, you didn't need to get the best grades for me to love you just the way you were - I totally understood! I still love you just the way you are - you have improved with age - and you are even smarter than ever! Love, mom

The WIlloughby Family said...

Poor tay!!!! I can totally picture her reaction... She also inherited being a drama queen from her mother... Haha

The Stewart said...

That is so cute!! You have darn cute kids!